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Youth Suicidal Thinking

Family Guide to Youth Suicidal Thinking

Understanding the Mindset of a Suicidal Youth

When a young person is experiencing suicidal thoughts, they may:

  • Feel overwhelmed by distress, anxiety, or emotional pain
  • Believe they lack the ability to cope with these feelings
  • See suicide as the only escape from turmoil
  • Desperately want to communicate their pain
  • Struggle to grasp the finality of suicide or the impact on family and friends
  • View their thoughts and decisions as rational, even when they are not

What Parents Can Do

  1. Talk to Your Child: Don’t be afraid to bring up the topic of suicide. Discussing it does not plant the idea in their mind—in fact, it can reduce risk. Let them know: “Suicide is not the answer. Help is available.”
  2. Make Your Home Safe: Remove or lock away items that could be used for self-harm, especially firearms, medications, and sharp objects.
  3. Use School and Community Resources: Reach out to school counselors, suicide prevention hotlines, or local mental health providers for support.
  4. Act Immediately: If your child shows signs of suicidal thoughts or you feel something is wrong, do not leave them alone. Stay with them, reassure them, and seek professional help. Take them to an emergency room if needed for immediate safety and evaluation.
  5. Listen to Their Friends: Peers often notice warning signs first. If a friend hints that they’re worried, ask questions and stay open to what they have to say.

If you suspect your child is experiencing depression, now is the time to ensure they do not have access to firearms. In Lackawanna County, firearms were the most common method used in youth suicides. Effective treatment is available and can be accessed through:

  • Your family doctor or pediatrician for a screening or referral
  • Your insurance company for a list of covered mental health providers
  • Conversations with other families and community members

National Crisis Resources

  • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or 1-800-SUICIDE
  • These lines offer 24/7, free, and confidential support for anyone in crisis or concerned about a loved one.

Reasons to call:

  • You’re in emotional distress or thinking about suicide
  • You’re worried someone else may be suicidal
  • You need someone to talk to who understands and cares

Local Mental Health Resources

Susquehanna County

  • Crisis Hotline: 570-348-6100
  • NEPA Community Resources: 570-853-3577
  • NHS (Northwestern Human Services): 570-876-5655

Lackawanna County

  • Scranton Counseling Center: 570-348-6100
  • Northwestern Human Services: 570-282-1732
  • Emergency Assistance: Dial 911

Additional Mental Health Resources